Riverside Park
David told me about Elder Uchtdorf's talk on patience in priesthood session. Specifically the following section:
"In the 1960s, a professor at Stanford University began a modest experiment testing the willpower of four-year-old children. He placed before them a large marshmallow and then told them they could eat it right away or, if they waited for 15 minutes, they could have two marshmallows... Only 30 percent were able to wait... The children who could not wait struggled later in life and had more behavioral problems, while those who waited tended to be more positive and better motivated, have higher grades and incomes, and have healthier relationships."
I thought this was a hilarious study--one of those studies I don't quite believe. In the same way, I don't believe in horoscopes nor Chinese fortunes cookies, but every once in a while I read one for the entertainment and "what if" factor. Therefore, I thought I'd try a certain 4-year-old out on the experiment. I used lollipops. There was little hesitation and the lollipop was gone within minutes. I personally attribute this to his huge heart, wanting to share the second lollipop with his mother, rather than a lack of patience. Besides, NEVER FEAR! David bought Elijah a bike. Therefore, Elijah's adulthood positivity, motivation, good grades and income are already guaranteed.
One more thing:
A milestone for Claire: She is now officially able to climb out of the crib. This is at an earlier age than Elijah. I would say this isn't because Elijah lacked the ability at a young age, but more because he has always valued his sleep.
Maybe I'm weird because I never learned how to ride a bike (well, not a two-wheeler at least)...
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